Festa Italiana alla Pilollas – Tortellini Bolognese

Tortellini with a thick Bolognese sauce can be a meal by itself. When it’s part of a multi course Italian Feast it’s best served as a small portion. It can be very filling. Tortellini originates from Bologna, Italy. Legend claims that Tortellini was inspired by the goddess Venus’ navel. An Italian medieval legend tells how Venus and Zeus, weary one night after their involvement in a battle between Bologna and Modena, arrive at a tavern in a small town on the outskirts of Bologna. After eating a hearty dinner and becoming slightly drunk, they decide to share a bedroom. The innkeeper, captivated after watching them, creeps to their room and peeks through the keyhole of the bedroom door. However, all he can see through the keyhole is the naval of Venus. This vision leaves him spellbound – so much so that he immediately rushes to the kitchen and creates a pasta inspired by Venus’ navel…and so was born the Tortellini.

Of course, a perfect sauce to go with Tortellini, also originates from Bologna, Bolognese. The night we served our Italian Feast, we offered Two pasta dishes. This one and Pesto Alla Genovese with Vermicelli. The recipe for that one comes later.

Six courses and Four wines made for quite an evening!

If you make your Bolognese ahead of time, chill or freeze it, and then reheat it, the flavors will intensify. I recommend simmering the Bolognese, alternating between covered and uncovered for several hours so that you end up with a slight “reduction’ of the sauce. Again, this lends itself to even more intensification of the flavors. The Bolognese will become richer and thicker, clinging to the Tortellini, when you finish it off. The number of servings will depend on how much Bolognese you make and if this is the main course or one of many.

Prep time: 10 minutes to 1 hour – Cook time: 20 minutes to 4 hours

Ingredients

A glass of red for the Chef

Italian Bolognese sauce

Tortellini of your choice

Grated or shredded Parmigiana cheese

Start by making the Bolognese. Here is my own recipe, which I shared with you some months ago. After simmering for several hours, begin to heat your pasta water minutes before you intend to serve this. I DO NOT make fresh pasta. There are so many excellent pastas available, I would rather spend my time on the sauces they deliver us when we eat! I do however, prefer refrigerated Tortellini, rather than dried, that you can get at most grocery stores now. Rana and Buitoni both make excellent refrigerated pasta, in a wide variety, and widely distributed through large and small grocery stores. We served a four cheese Tortellini the night of our Italian Feast and in this recipe as well.

Delicious, convenient and available
Excellent quality

Add salt to taste. Gently boil the Tortellini so that it retains its shape and cook it about 30 seconds less than called for in the instructions. You’ll want to finish cooking the Tortellini in the sauce.

Slow boil, according to directions
Newest family member Lucy supervising
Finish cooking in the sauce

When nearly cooked, drain the Tortellini, add it back to the pot and add your sauce. Continue cooking on medium heat for a couple of minutes. You want the pasta to finish and to absorb the sauce. It really enhances the flavor. Gently stir the pasta and sauce together.

When you’re ready to eat, plate this tastebud delighting gift from Bologna, pour a nice glass of your favorite red wine, and enjoy!

Served with a Cesar Salad, OMG, this was so good!

This is pictured as the main course. The night of the Italian Feast, there were four Tortellini with Bolognese plated alongside Pesto Alla Genovese con Vermicelli. Just enough of each to satisfy the taste buds and set them up for the Secondi and a nice Chianti.

Leftovers are not usual.

Wines We Love With This

Chianti

Valpolicella

Sangiovese

Cabernet Sauvignon

Quando condividi un pasto con gli amici, diventano una famiglia!

Festa Italiana alla Pilollas – Oliva d’porco Scaloppine

So this is another of the recipes for the Italian Feast Menu. This dish was borrowed from the cookbook, “Italy, The Beautiful Cookbook”, and modified for our taste. The original recipe calls for red pepper flakes, but we weren’t sure everyone coming would appreciate the rising heat in the back of the throat, so we left that out. Suzanne loves capers, so we doubled the amount called for.

The dinner that evening was an event. Starting around 6pm, it stretched and meandered its way all the way to 2am the following morning. The entire 6 course evening was inspired by my love for the people we invited and the desire to express that in the best way that most Italians do, through food and wine. Oh yeah, we had 4 different wines throughout the feast, ending with Cappuccino and after-dinner drinks.

Menu of the evening

When we got together that evening we had known everyone for about 5 years. Our neighborhood was one of those filled with YUPPIES of the 80’s and 90’s. We had all taken vacations together, watched each others kids growing up, shared similar professional experiences, supported each other through personal troubles, cheered one another and slowly became an extended family. It had been a very long time since I felt that kind of closeness, so I really wanted the evening to be special.

This dish was part of the Secondi, or main course. Suzanne and I waited table and brought this out, already plated, preceded by Pollo Alla Romano and followed by Melanzane Alla Parmigiana. Of course, you can serve it all at once, sharing plate space for each dish. We just wanted to stretch things out, have plenty of wine and talk through the evening.

Since this is one of six courses, the recipe will serve 8 to 10 people. If it’s the only course, being served with pasta, it will serve 4 to 6.

Prep time: 15 mins. – Cook time : 20 mins.

Ingredients

1 – Pork Tenderloin – cut into 1″ medallions

3 – Lgr shallots

1/4C – Capers (drained)

1/4C – Kalamata Olives

1/2C – Dry white wine

1/2C – Chicken broth

1T – Cornstarch mixed with 2T water OR Butter/Flour Roux mix

Olive Oil

Pat the Pork Tenderloin dry before slicing

Making the Magic

First, take a sip of wine and relax.

Add Olive Oil to a large, deep pan and heat over medium.

Slice the Pork Tenderloin into 1″ thick medallions. Pat dry.

Once the oil is swirling in the pan, carefully place the medallions. There will be some splatter.

Turn the medallions after 4 minutes or so.

I always feel like one of my favorite chefs is watching me. This painting is one of many by Will Rafuse and my kitchen is full of them!
Slice and pat dry
Carefully place medallions in hot oil
Brown the medallions and cook for about 8 minutes

After browning both sides of the medallions, move them to the side of your pan.

Drop in the shallots and saute for about 2 to 3 mins. Lean over the pan and smell the aroma as the shallots begin to release their oils and acids into the hot olive oil. They are chemically changing and the flavors will mingles with the rest of the ingredients.

Now add the chicken broth and the wine. Stir and scrape the bottom of the pan. As the liquid begins to boil it will help the bits stuck to the bottom of the pan to release into the sauce you are creating.

Next add the Olives and the Capers. Stir and coat them with the broth and wine.

Sauce the shallots before adding liquids
Coat the olives and capers
A slow simmer for about 10 minutes

After a minute or so, slide the pork medallions back into the middle of the pan, spreading them around.

Reduce heat to low, cover and simmer for 10 minutes.

Return the heat to med-high and add your Butter roux or corn starch mixture to thicken the sauce. An easy butter roux is 1T softened butter thoroughly mixed with 1T flour. It makes a soft paste that you can drop into and sauce you want to thicken.

Return to med-high heat before adding the Roux for thickening

Once your sauce has thickened, it is ready to serve over your favorite pasta as a main course or one or two medallions with just the sauce, as part of a beautiful Italian feast!

Delizioso!

Variations To Keep It New

Consider adding fresh button mushrooms to this. Also, a hand full of raisins will make a nice sweet/savory change of pace.

I love trying different pastas and YES, the do taste different!

Wines We Love With This

Any light red or a dry white wine.

Goditi il cibo, la famiglia e l’amore! Mangiare!

Festa Italiana alla Pilolla – Melanzane alla Parmigiana

Eggplant is one of those things that most people seldom make. Well, maybe not most, but enough to make this dish worth considering. It’s not nearly as intimidating as it looks and the flavors and textures are amazing. Eggplant will absorb the flavors of almost anything you cook with it, so it becomes a very versatile ingredient. This dish was part of the “Secondi” course during our Italian Feast back in 1993. I included this for several reasons. One of our guests was not a huge consumer of meat, and I was able to make this a few days ahead of time, refrigerate it and pop it in the oven at the appropriate time during the evening of our dinner party. We started this meal around 6 or 6:30pm and it went until 2am the following morning. I usually find some link, for most of the dishes I post, to a memory or event that makes it special? The dinner we served that night was the first time I made Eggplant Parmesan. I think of that evening every time I make it. I remember the laughter, the warmth and love being shared around the table. It always makes this dish special to me.

As I’ve related in previous posts, this was a dinner inspired by wanting to show all our friends how we felt about them. It took several days to get ready and it was an amazing evening of toasts, good food, friendship, love and knowing we were with people we had chosen as “Family”. So this meal, this gathering, this evening of sharing was, as my Grandfather Francis used to say, “per la famiglia, cin, cin!”

This recipe is good for six people if you serve pasta on the side, four people if you make it the only dish and 8 or more if it is for a multi-course dinner.

Prep time: 30 minutes – Cook time: 40 to 50 minutes (longer if you prep and refrigerate before baking)

Ingredients

1 Generous pour of the Chef’s favorite red wine

2 – 3 (1 1/2lb) Eggplants, sliced 1/2″

3 – 5T Extra Virgin Olive Oil

1 3/4C Tomato sauce, use your favorite jarred sauce or a homemade marinara

20 Basil, whole leaves

1 1/2C Mozzarella, shredded

1C Parmigiano Reggiano, grated

1/4C Italian bread crumbs

Salt & Pepper to taste

Get your ingredients together and take the stress out of cooking!

Making The Magic

Wash the outside of your eggplants and slice them into 1/2″ thick slices. Sprinkle a little salt over each slice of the egg plant and layer them, in a colander, on top of each other. Once sliced, salted and layered, lay a large plate or something solid on top and weigh it all down. I use a large can of tomatoes for this. Leave the eggplant for about 20 to 30 minutes. The salt draws out some of the moisture and the bitterness you sometimes find in eggplant. Once they are sufficiently drained, lay them out and pat them dry.

Half inch slices
Drain in a colander
Weigh it down

Preheat your oven to 425° while the eggplant is sweating. Take another sip of your wine!

Line a shallow baking pan with foil and spray it lightly with Pam. When you’ve dried your eggplant, lay the slices out in the baking pan, in a single layer. It might take two pans. Brush the slices with olive oil. Notice how the oil is absorbed into the eggplant? You may need more olive oil, so don’t be stingy. You can always use more. When all of the eggplant has been brushed with olive oil, lightly dust the eggplant with Italian bread crumbs. Place the baking pan(s) in the oven and bake for about 20-25 minutes, until lightly browned.

Dust lightly with Italian breadcrumbs
425° for 20-25 minutes, watch it
Golden brown, not dark brown

While that’s baking, prepare the initial bed for the eggplant. Use an 8 x 12 (best) or 9 x 13 baking dish. Spread about 1/4 of your tomato sauce in the baking dish. Your first layer of eggplant will go directly on top of this. When the eggplant is finished, remove it from the oven and let it cool.

Reduce the oven temp to 400°.

Begin to layer the eggplant, basil, sauce and cheeses. Place the first layer of eggplant in the bed of tomato sauce.

Spread 1/4 of the tomato sauce over the eggplant in the baking dish.

Place half of the Basil leaves on top of the tomato sauce. Spread 1/2C of the Mozzarella and then 1/4C of the grated Parmigiano Reggiano cheese. Grind some fresh black pepper to taste over all of it.

Repeat this layering a second time.

A thin layer is all you need
Fresh Basil really makes a difference
Plenty of cheese in the layers and on top

Repeat again for a third time, finishing without the Basil leaves and using the final 1/2C of Parmigiano Reggiano to top it all off.

Bake the casserole for 20 to 25 minutes, uncovered, not letting the cheese get too dark. It will be bubbling on the sides and golden brown on the top when it’s finished.

Bake at 400° for 20 to 25 minutes, not too long, or it will overcook.

Bring it out of the oven and let it sit for about 10 minutes.

Finish that first glass of wine while you’re waiting and then pour another.

Left this in too long, but it was still delicious
Slightly overcooked but tasted great. Probably should have used an 8 x 12 instead of an 9 x 13 baking dish.

Cut into squares and plate your beautiful Melanzane alla Parmigiana! Ummmm, you’re so gonna love this! Delizioso!

Variations To Keep It New

If you would like to add some meat to this dish, thinly slice some precooked Italian sausage and add it in the second layer. Add some red pepper flakes to the tomato sauce for a little heat.

Wines We Love With This

Merlot

Chianti

Beaujolais

Leftovers

Reheated in the microwave keeps it from drying out. In the oven at 350°, covered and you can always add a little tomato sauce to keep it moist.

Mangia, bevi, ama con gusto!

Question

Do you have a favorite jarred or canned sauce you like to use in recipes?

Festa Italiana alla Pilollas – Minestrone di Riso

This was the second course of our wonderful Italian Feast with friends and neighbors in 1993. This marvelous and delicious soup also connects me to one of my oldest memories. We lived in Brooklyn, NY for several years when I was somewhere in my preschool years. My father was in the Merchant Marines until I was 7 years old, so we moved between Charlotte, NC and Brooklyn, NY. My mother’s parents, Gracie and Speedy, lived in Charlotte on Tennyson Ave. A dirt road back then, they built their house in 1949, paying about $5,600. It was the one place in our “gypsy lifestyle” that remained constant, so no matter how much we moved, Gracie and Speedy were always there. My father’s sisters lived in New York and we were close to one of his sisters, my Aunt Jean and Uncle Gabe. Brooklyn was a bustling, prosperous, middle class town that stood in the shadow of Manhattan.

Such sweet faces, such holy terrors!
Gracie and Speedy’s house – 1009 Tennyson Dr, Charlotte, NC

I remember my Aunt Jean making her Minestrone all the time. It seemed as if she always had a pot going on the stove and her kitchen always smelled glorious. One day, she and her daughter Delores came over for dinner and brought some of her Minestrone. Mom had some bread in the oven and my little brother, Donnie, was running around our apartment in his diapers, making a ruckus and refusing to let Mom put pants on him. It was January, cold and we had hardwood floors, like most apartments back then.

We finally sat down for our meal and I remember my brother and I sitting on phones books. Because I was sitting at the “big table”, Donnie insisted he do the same, not in the one high chair we had. He made such a fuss about it my Mom finally gave in, and sat him at the “big table”, on a stack of phone books. Aunt Jean was serving up her wonderful Minestrone, and Mom brought out the sliced, hot bread. Even though it was winter, cold outside and the sun was going down, I remember feeling warm and safe in the apartment. My Dad was at sea again, so when we weren’t with Aunt Jean and the family, it was just the three of us. We were all sitting at the table, and I was listening intently to everything the adults were saying. I adored my cousins, Delores, Jimmy, and Janette, as well as my Aunt Jean and Uncle Gabe. Just being with them was always fun, and it was one of the few times we felt like we were part of a big family. Aunt Jean and Mom were laughing about something I didn’t understand. I was laughing because laughter is contagious and little kids “catch a laugh” as easily as they catch a cold. I remember the soup was delicious and Mom gave me a large piece of bread to dip in the soup. I think we were about half way through our soup when Donnie announced, “pee-pee Mommy”. She looked over to see him standing up on his chair, his diaper around his ankles. And then, he peed, straight into his soup bowl. With shocked looks on all our faces, we froze while little Donnie relieved himself right into his bowl of Minestrone. Aunt Jean and Mom burst into laughter at the same time. Delores and I soon followed. Donnie looked at all of us, a little confused I think, and then he started laughing. Finally, he sat back down, with his diapers still off. He picked up his spoon and started to reach for his soup bowl. Mom and Aunt Jean screamed, “NO”, and my cousin Delores jumped up and took the spoon away from him. Little Donnie started to cry, more from the loud “NO” than anything else. Aunt Jean got up and whisked his bowl away. Delores and Aunt Jean came back out of the kitchen with a fresh bowl of Minestrone and a new spoon. We all finished that incredible meal together, Donnie still sitting on the phone books with no pants or diapers on. I still remember the taste of that soup and the warmth from the inside out!

The recipe I’ll share comes from another of my favorite cookbooks, “Italy – The Beautiful Cookbook”. It’s one of those that looks like a “coffee table book”, but don’t judge this book by its cover. The recipes inside are amazing. It was a cookbook I bought because of the beautiful photos and stories and has become one of my favorite “goto’s” when I’m looking to try something new.

This recipe will serve 6 as a meal with bread or 10 as a second course of a large meal. I promise it does NOT include my brother’s “special ingredient”! Also, Minestrone can be served hot or cold/room temperature. The cooking method is a little different because of the rice.

Pre time: 45 min – Cook time: 2 hrs 20 min

Ingredients

Gather everything you’ll need and prep the ingredients so all you’ll need to do is add each, once you start cooking.

I double check to be sure everything is there.
Ready to start!

1 – 2 Glasses of wine, Chef’s choice, drink while cooking!

8C – Chicken stock or chicken bone broth

1 Can – Red beans, drained

2oz – Pancetta or bacon, finely chopped

2T – Butter

1 – Onion, medium sized, chopped

2 – Celery stalks, diced

2 – Carrots, medium sized, diced

2 – Zucchini, diced

2 – Potatoes, medium sized, diced

4 – Tomatoes, large, ripe, peeled, chopped

1T – Tomato paste

1C – Green beans, short cut. I used frozen cut green beans.

1/2C – Arborio rice. You can use any type rice you refer, but this adds to the thickening of this soup.

The candle helps reduce burning eyes while chopping onion

2T – Italian parsley, chopped

6+T – Parmesan cheese, grated or shredded

Salt – use sea salt if you have it, to taste

Pepper – to taste

Prepping makes the cooking process a lot more fun!

Making the Magic

You probably finished the first glass of wine, unless it was a generous pour, so you should probably refill that glass of wine. Take a sip. Now, let’s get started making your masterpiece! These steps are simple, but the sequence is important. Adding the right ingredient, at the right time, helps the flavors to combine and bloom inside your Minestrone.

Add the 2T of butter, add more if you like, into your stock pot or sauce pan. Preheat on medium high until the butter just starts to sizzle.

Add the pancetta, or bacon, and the onions and reduce the heat to medium. Stir frequently and cook for several minutes, until the onions start to brown, slightly. When the bottom of the pan has a golden crust starting to form, it will be time for you to start adding more ingredients. Lean over the pan and take a deep breath. OMG…is that smell incredible, or what?!

A sip of wine is appropriate at this point.

Next, add the celery, carrots, red beans, potatoes and zucchini. Stirring frequently, cook for about 5 or 6 minutes. You don’t want things to stick to the bottom, so keep an eye on this.

Next, I like to add the tomato paste at this point. Thoroughly stir it in, mixing it well with all the veggies, coating each piece so the flavors start to combine and the combination begins to bloom in the pan. Take another whiff. Amazing, isn’t it?

Next add the green beans and chopped tomatoes. Stir into the mix.

Finally add the broth. Salt and pepper to taste. Stir. Bring everything up to a boil. Increase the heat to medium high and wait for the boil to begin. Once boiling, reduce the heat and let your Minestrone simmer for about two hours.

Not too dark or the onions will burn
Mix and blend, mix and blend
Simmer for 2 hours. The house will smell wonderful!

IF YOU WANT TO SERVE THE MINESTRONE HOT:

After 2 hours simmering, bring the heat back up and add the rice. Cook on medium high to high for 15 to 16 minutes. When finished cooking, remove the heat. Ladle your work of love into the serving bowls. Sprinkle with the grated or shredded Parmesan and top with the chopped Italian Parsley.

IF YOU WANT TO SERVE THE MINESTRONE COOLED DOWN OR COLD:

After 2 hours simmering, bring the heat back up and add the rice. ONLY cook the rice for about 5 or 6 minutes and then remove the heat. The rice will finish cooking as the Minestrone cools. While the Minestrone is still hot, ladle it into the serving bowls and stir in 1T of Parmesan cheese. Let it cool. Garnish with the chopped Italian Parsley, just before serving.

Hot or cold, you will love this soup. Serve it with some crusty Italian bread. We get ours at Aldi’s grocery stores. We love the “Special Selected – Italian Bread” they carry. You finish baking this at home and it is so very close to what we used to have when traveling in Italy. Momma Mia, Bellissimo!

Mangiare, mangiare, il tuo amore è in ogni boccone!

Variations To Keep It New

Try different vegetables. Sliced Okra makes it a little thicker and adds an amazing texture. Corn adds a little sweetness and a nice crunch. Replace the green beans with cut asparagus. You can add cooked, chopped chicken or turkey. Cubed ham adds a whole different dimension to this. The possibilities are endless.

Wines We Love With This

Frascati

Pinot Grigio

Chardonnay

Leftovers

I always make extra so I can freeze some. It’s awesome when cooked again. The veggies change texture and the flavors are more blended. I never met a left over Minestrone I didn’t like!

Food attaches us to so many memories. Remember that whenever you make a meal for someone you love!

Question

What’s your earliest childhood memory? Is it associated with food? No, breastfeeding does not count!

Lobzilla vs Pilolla

Lobster is one of those dishes we seldom have at home, unless you live in an area of the country where lobster is available and as plentiful as chicken at the supermarket. Before 2005, I may have had lobster a total of 6 or 7 times. In 2006 -2008 we probably had lobster two dozen times or more. What changed? Availability, price and I learned how to make it at home. The reason for all that changing has more to do with our lifestyle and location changing, than anything else. It’s a bit of a story, but there are so many great memories wrapped up in the years 2000 to 2009. When I started this blog, I said I wanted to also share stories and explain why some of my dishes are special to me. I hope you enjoy the stories, if not as much as the recipes, at least enough to make it worth your time to read them. Maybe they will trigger a memory of yours and so inspire you to some creative cooking.

Suzanne and I lived on a sailboat for those 9 years. We decided to make plans so that I could retire early, in 2005, and go cruising on our full-time live aboard sailboat, “Carolina”. We purchased Carolina in 1999, took delivery in 2000 and moved from Havre de Grace, MD to the Inner Harbor of Baltimore. It was a wonderful experience, filled with many, many friends and memories.

Our home for nine years….sailing under the Bay Bridge, near Annapolis, MD!

One memory, in particular, was the evening we made fresh Maine Lobster onboard Carolina for six of us. Some friends and marina neighbors had them shipped to us as a surprise. It was the first time I ever knew you could ship live lobster that way and the first time I would fix them at home. We all had a blast and of course, the lobster was incredible. I wouldn’t call what the lobster had, a blast though! Preparation was a bit of a challenge, given the size and limits of a small galley/kitchen. But we managed and were able to pull off one of the many memorable meals on Carolina. We lived aboard Carolina longer than any house we have ever owned!

Lobster dinner on-board SV Carolina, 2001

The full-time live-aboard boating community is really unique. Everyone agrees that it is an “equalizer”. It doesn’t matter your background, profession, social status, race, creed or religion. Everyone depends on everyone. You become truly self-sufficient and dependent on one another in many ways, turning to each other for help, assistance, and advice. We all had shared experiences to which we could relate. We all found things to make life aboard a boat easier and fun. We all traveled to many of the same places, or recommended places to those who have not been there. We ALL end up sticking our hands into things and learning about on-board systems that we wish we didn’t have to deal with. No one is above any of it, so it doesn’t matter what your social or economic status might be. It sure as hell does matter if you know how to fix a toilet, unstop a plugged water intake or replace an engine water pump. Mechanics, Doctors, Lawyers, Teachers, Nurses, Corporate Executives, Truck Drivers, Farmers are all at the same level when you’re up to your elbows in “whatever”, and it happens to EVERYONE!

The next time we had lobster was in the Bahamas. In 2005, as planned, I retired and we began our cruising life on Carolina. Like hundreds of others, we headed south in October of that year, finally making our crossing to the Bahamas in December. I was so looking forward to all of the things I knew we would experience. One, in particular, was to “free dive” for fish and lobster. I had all the gear I needed and was totally prepared. In the Bahamas, it is illegal to wear scuba gear or use a speargun when hunting fish or lobster. You can only use a Hawaiian sling (like a large sling shot) and snorkel (holding your breath while you dive). It took some practice and lots of failures, but I finally got my first lobster in January, 2006.

We had caught up with some friends of ours, from Harbor View Marina in Baltimore, and Dave taught me where to look for lobster. I had envisioned them walking across the sandy bottom or across coral formations, just waiting for me to come shoot them with a spear. Didn’t quite work that way. Once I learned where to look, I caught lobster almost every time I went out hunting. It was an amazing feeling to take lobster and fish out of the ocean and feed ourselves from what I caught. The day I got LOBZILLA, was the first time Dave took me out. We had been hunting for a couple of hours and Dave already had one. He was going back for a second, in a place he was pretty sure he had seen another. I was frustrated, having had so many failures already, but thought, what the hell, I’ll try one more spot that I had snorkeled over. It was about 20 feet down, a formation of brain coral, surrounded by white sand. There was an opening at the bottom of the brain coral, with a slight mound of sand on the outside, as if something had dug it out and made its way under the brain coral. I hyper ventilated, took a deep breath and dropped slowly to the bottom, right over the coral formation. I had to lay down on the sandy bottom to peer inside the hole. As I looked in, sure enough, for the first time, I saw the eyes of a lobster starring back at me. In the darkness, it’s the one thing you can see on a lobster. I bounced back to the surface, got another breath and dropped back down, this time with my Hawaiian sling at the ready. As I hit the bottom I made sure my spear was lined up and I fired at the two eyes glaring from inside the darkness. The spear left my sling and the next thing I could hear was the impact of the barbed tip crashing into and through the hard shell. Suddenly, ALL HELL broke loose! Dave had told me never to use the spear to pull a lobster out of its hole. If you do, there’s a good possibility you’ll lose your catch. The trick is to reach inside the hole and grab the lobster by its back. Once you have a good hold, pull it out with your hand. So, reaching into the darkness, still holding the other end of my spear, I found him and wrapped my hand around the back of the beast. Holy cow, what a ruckus! At that moment, two things occurred to me. Damn, this is a big lobster, or my hands have shrunk. Secondly, Oh crap, I need to breath, this guy does not. As Lobzilla thrashed his strong tail repeatedly I did manage to get him out, and immediately bounced to the surface for air. Swimming on the surface and breathing through a snorkel tube, with my first lobster held tightly against my chest, I finally made it to the dingy. Carefully, I eased my catch, with the spear still though it, into the dingy. I was so excited! I pulled myself up and into the dingy. Ripping my mask and snorkel off I reached over and took hold of my catch. This was my first, but I was thinking, this guy seems to be pretty big. After removing the spear I put soon to be named Lobzilla inside the huge cooler I had for any fish or lobster I might catch. His antennae were sticking out one side. I was stowing the spear when Dave arrived back at the dingy. He pulled himself aboard and took off his mask and snorkel. He did have his second lobster for the day! Leaning over to open the cooler and drop in his second catch, he said, “Gawd Damn, I’ve never even seen one this big, and this is your first catch! Good job!” Wow, did that ever feel good. Getting that kind of praise from Dave was inspiring and awesome. I couldn’t wait to get back to Carolina and show Suzanne. She met us at the stern of the boat as we pulled up in the dingy. Pictures were taken. I beat my sub primal chest. Grunted, “Me Tarzan, you Jane.” Suzanne just rolled her eyes and murmured, “Yeah whatever….I’m not cleaning’ that thing” and walked back to the cockpit of the boat. LOBZILLA was delicious and only the beginning of a great lobster hunting season our first year out. It was an awesome experience.

My first catch was nicknamed Lobzilla because of his size!

Our winter in the Bahamas gave me a chance to sharpen my hunting skills and got me into the best physical condition I had been in for many years. I caught fish and lobster every time I went hunting and we made great use of our vacuum sealing system and a freezer that really worked. Most boats have terrible refrigeration and freezers. I had completely replaced the factory system before we left Baltimore and ours worked great. We could even make ice and keep ice cream on our boat! Even as we were frequently eating fish and lobster we still managed to bring back about two dozen frozen lobster tails when we returned to the US.

Finding their “Hidey-Holes”. About 25′ down.
Oop there it is…Oop there it is…Oop there it is!

There was such a beautiful bounty of fish and lobster. We found many ways to prepare it and enjoy it and the recipe here will be an entire dinner with some of the Bahamian twists we learned there.

We had a catch on every hunting trip!

Sharing these experiences and memories with many of our friends has been great fun over the years. Sharing the dishes we learned to cook and the recipes we acquired has been even more special. Food is an integral part of our shared experiences. Delighting in the flavors and textures, the colors and aromas, the company and friendship create memories that last a lifetime. Sometimes, even beyond the life of a friendship. Even when that happens, it doesn’t diminish the memories and the feelings they may evoke.

Lobzilla Dinner Menu

Bacon Wrapped scallops – Frascati, a fresh, crisp white Italian wine

Beer Steamed whole lobster – Chardonnay from Shug Vineyards and a Sauvignon Blanc

Chicago Style grilled ribeye – Stayed with the whites

Bahamian Style Mac ‘n Cheese

Lemon Delight squares

Prep Time: 1 – 2 hours – Cook time: 1 hour

To make this dinner manageable for the chef and fun for everyone, make your dishes in this order so the easiest is left for last. Let me state, right here at the beginning. Insert the following instruction throughout any of these steps as often and where ever you like. It’s essential to the joy of cooking!

“Pour yourself a glass of wine and take a sip! Hug someone you love! Continue…..

1 Lemon Delight Squares

Ingredients

Pecan Crust

1C – Flour

1/2C – Ground or finely chopped pecans

1/4C – Butter, melted

Lemon Square Layers

2 1/2C – Cool Whip, thawed

2pkgs – Lemon Instant Jello Pudding

8oz – Cream cheese

1-2T – Lemon juice, fresh squeezed if you have it

3C – Milk

1C – Sugar, powdered or icing (same thing)

1/4C – Finely chopped, toasted pecans

Making The Magic

Crust

Preheat oven to 350°.

Combine the flour, the finely ground pecans and melted butter. Blend these together until you have a crumbly mixture. Add a little butter if it seems to dry. It should be slightly pasty.

Spread mixture evenly into a 9×13 baking dish.

Bake in the oven for 15 to 20 minutes. Remove and let cool completely. While it’s cooling…..

Having a crusty top on the base will let you spread the next layer more evenly.

Lemon Layers

Cream Cheese

With an electric mixer, blend the cream cheese, slowly adding all of the powdered sugar. Blend until smooth and creamy. Continuing to blend, slowly add at least 1T of fresh lemon juice

Gently fold in 1C of Cool Whip

Fold in gently….don’t whip it.

Gently spread evenly over the cooled pecan crust. Have a knife or another spatula ready to scrape the layer off the spatula you’re using to spread the cream cheese layer. The crust may want to pull up, so be gentle.

Lemon Pudding

Whisk together the pudding packets and the milk. The directions on the packets will call for 4C milk. Ignore that and use 3C. Add at least 1T of fresh lemon juice for additional tartness. Continue to whisk until the pudding has thickened.

Spread evenly over the Cream Cheese layer.

Topping Layer

Spread the remainder of the Cool Whip over the Lemon Pudding. Sprinkle 1/4C toasted, finely chopped pecans over the Top Layer.

The toasted, chopped pecans are a nice contrast to sweet, tart layers.

Refrigerate for several hours. I made mine the night before and stored it covered in the fridge until desert was served the next evening.

2. Bacon Wrapped Scallops

Okay. I’m busted here. I have to admit that this is a “cheater recipe”. We LOVE the Bacon Wrapped Scallops you get prepackaged and frozen at Target! Yes, I did say Target. I figure, with all the other things I’m doing, using this as an appetizer is just fine, and guess what, your dinner guest will LOVE them too!

Here’s the instructions: Buy them at Target. Open the box. Cook as directed. OMG, they are so GOOOOOOOOD!

Drink wine and serve these before the Mac ‘N Cheese goes in the oven.

So easy to add a really special starter to your evening.
A friend of ours turned us on to these!

3. Bahamian Mac ‘n Cheese

Ingredients

1 pkg – Macaroni, elbow, 16oz

2 – Country Ham slices, can also use bacon or sausage, fully cooked

2 – 3T – Butter

2 cans – Evaporated milk, 12oz

6C – Cheddar cheese, grated, use sharp medium or mild, or 2C of each, or whatever is your preference

2T – Onions, yellow, finely chopped or minced, add more if you like onions

2T – Sweet Pepper, finely chopped use red or yellow and I add up to 1/4 cup, always depends on my mood

1 – Pepper, Habanero, seeded, deveined and finely chopped. I sometimes wear a face mask to keep the vapors of the pepper out of my nose. This pepper is very hot and will burn your skin and eyes if you’re not careful. This much pepper will not add a lot of heat to the dish because of what we’ll be doing with it in the recipe.

3 – Eggs, large, beaten

1t – Paprika, sweet, smoked paprika will give this a nice change.

Salt

Pepper

Get all your ingredients out before you start your prep.

Making The Magic

Fill a large pot, 6 to 8 Qt, approximately half full of water and add salt. Turn the burner on high and bring the water to boil. Once boiling, add your macaroni elbows, reduce heat to medium high, and cook the recommended time for al dente, minus 3 minutes. The macaroni will finish cooking while you bake this dish in the oven.

While the macaroni is cooking, coat the inside of your 9×13 baking dish with butter. Preheat your oven to 400°.

Also, mince the onion, bell pepper and habanero pepper. Finely chop the country ham. This is a very salty ham and is sort of an American prosciutto, just a little thicker and not so subtle a flavor.

I like wearing a mask to keep the Habanero vapors out of my nose and throat. They tend to make me cough when chopping them.

Sauté the ingredients in olive oil and butter. 5 to 7 minutes should do nicely.

Blending these in the olive oil and butter transfers the flavor and some of the heat to the oil, which all mixes better with the macaroni.

While sautéing the mixture, heat the evaporated milk in a sauce pan, slowly. Do not bring it to a boil.

When the macaroni is finished, minus 3 minutes, drain the water and return the macaroni to the pot. Stir in the warmed milk, the sautĂ©d onions, peppers and ham, and 1/2 of the cheddar cheese. Stir in gently so everything is well mixed. I prefer using a silicone spatula because it is gentler on the food you’re mixing.

It will look “soupy”, but transforms itself in the oven.

Transfer your macaroni mixture to your 9×13 baking dish and spread evenly.

Beat the eggs and spoon them evenly over the macaroni mix, working the eggs into the macaroni. Don’t stir it in, just push it in gently with the spoon or the silicone spatula.

Sprinkle and evenly distribute the remaining cheddar cheese over the top, finishing it all off with a sprinkle of paprika. Smoked, Spanish paprika gives a nice twist to the flavor.

The paprika adds color and darkens the top quickly, so don’t be afraid it’s burned.

Bake in the preheated oven at 400° for 35-40 minutes. Look for a dark golden crust to develop on top.

When ready, remove from the oven and let this cool for a few minutes. Serve it by cutting into squares or rectangles, “Bahamian Style”!

4. Chicago Style Grilled Ribeye

Ingredients

2 – Steaks, I used ribeye, 1 to 1 1/2 inch thick. You could also use marinated flank steak, or New York Strip.

Olive oil, my favorite comes from The Natural Olive Hickory

Steak seasoning or rub, to taste

Making the Magic

I do these on the grill, outside, because of the amount of smoke. If you have a strong vent hood, you can probably do these on the stove top. The secret is to use a cast iron skillet or raised rib griddle. Make sure the surface temp is high. You want the steaks to sear quickly and blacken on the outside and be pink, all the way through.

Lay your steaks out for a couple of hours allowing them to come up to room temperature. Rub them with olive oil and your favorite steak rub. I used Mitchell Street steak rub this night. Do both sides of the steak and let them sit for the two hours, covered, while they come up to room temperature.

Put your steaks on the grill AFTER you start steaming your lobster. Have them ready to go.

Once you’ve grilled your steaks, slice them and plate them on a serving platter. Since we had so much other food, I only needed to grill two steaks for the six of us.

With all the food we had I only needed to serve two steaks for the six of us, and we had leftover steak for Bandit!

5. Beer Steamed Whole Lobster

So here’s the thing, cooking whole, live lobster requires a big pot. I used my 30 Qt Stock pot for this, with a steaming rack in the bottom. It was the perfect size for 6, 2lb lobsters. We got our lobster from an online source, the Lobster Trap, in Maine. They are very reasonably priced and next day shipping means you get “LIVE LOBSTER”, and it doesn’t get any fresher than that.

I used three bottles of Independence Ale that I get from Aldi’s. Pretty good beer to drink as well! Pour it into the bottom of your stock pot being sure the liquid doesn’t come above the steaming rack in the bottom of the pot. Bring the beer up to boil. Once you have it boiling, add the live lobster.

Steam a 2lb Lobster for 16 minutes. The calculation is 13 minutes for the first pound and then an additional 3 minutes for each additional pound. A 1 1/2lb Lobster would take 14 1/2 minutes. You want to see a bright red when they are done. If you steam too long, the Lobster will become a little rubbery, but you know what? The worst Lobster I ever had was wonderful!

Do NOT remove the rubber bands until after they cook. They can put a serious hurt on you!
Drop ’em in, cover ’em, don’t look!

After the proper cooking time, take them out right away. Use some oven mitts, and holding them over a sink, pierce the underside to let any excess juice run out. Otherwise, it will end up on the plate of the person eating it. Clip off the rubber bands, or slide them off and plate the Lobster.

Sequence For Timing All Of It

Make Lemon Delight and place in fridge.

Prep Mac’N Cheese – set aside.

Prep Steaks for grill. Olive Oil and season as you like.

Cook and serve Bacon Wrapped Scallops.

40 – 50 minutes before eating, preheat oven to 400° and put Mac ‘N Cheese in.

25 minutes before Mac ‘N Cheese comes out, boil beer and start steaming Lobster.

Melt 3/4 to 1LB butter – pour into individual serving cups as you plate and serve the Lobster.

10 minutes before Mac ‘N Cheese comes out of oven, grill the steaks, 2 1/2 minutes per side for 1 1/2 inch ribeyes.

Remove steak from grill and let rest for 2 to 3 minutes.

Remove Mac ‘N Cheese from oven. Let rest for a few minutes.

Remove Lobsters, pierce undersides, drain and plate.

Cut Mac’N Cheese into squares and plate with Lobster.

Slice steak into strips and place on a serving platter.

Serve it all and enjoy!

The beautiful floral arrangement came for www.sharonsturgessflorals.com

When everyone is finished and they think they just can’t eat another bite, holy moly, we almost forgot dessert! Not to worry, too much. You’ll be surprised at how light, refreshing, and perfect the Lemon Delight is for this meal.

Cut into squares, serve it, sit back and enjoy the Ummmm’s and Ahhhh’s and Oooooo’s and maybe even a “Please sir, may I have some more?”

Lite enough to enjoy, even after all we just ate!

What in the world are you waiting for folks……Dig in, before it gets cold!

Wines We Love With This

Frascati

Chardonnay

Sauvignon Blanc

Pinot Grigio

Gewurztraminer

Reisling

Leftovers

Wait! Before you throw out the legs and shells, there’s another meal in there. Yes, even the shells! Freeze them and look for my recipe for Creamy Lobster Bisque. You’ll love it!

Eat hearty friends, neighbors and loved ones! Feel the joy from the inside out? That’s the food you’re eating and the love that went into it!

Question/Request

Make any part, or all this menu. Make it really special and add your own twist. Share it with me so we can all try your creation! Let me hear from you.

Festa Italiana alla Pilollas

Years ago, I suddenly had an urge to prepare a truly memorable, Italian feast for our closest friends. It was 1993 and we lived in Raleigh, NC, in a neighborhood called Wood Valley. While there, we developed close, personal friendships that have lasted to this day. We were there for seven years and even though we’ve been tumbleweeds and moved many places since then, I have some of my fondest memories from that time and the people we shared our lives with.

Wood Valley was and is a great community!

Anyway, I wanted the meal to be special. I wanted the invite to be more than ordinary and I wanted to serve and enjoy the meal the same way that most Europeans did at the time. We had moved to Raleigh, almost directly from London, having spent 5 years there. Suzanne and I almost felt more European than American at that time. We wanted to cling to some parts of that experience, and were able to do so, because our close friends had also traveled abroad. I knew they would appreciate and love the effort and the care that went into what was planned. Suzanne and I worked on the menu for weeks together and the dishes we came up with were pretty good, even if I do say so myself. I’m pretty sure that I’m speaking for all of us when I say it was a most memorable evening. The meal started with a glass or two of wine in the kitchen, while Suzanne and I were doing some last minute preparations. It then moved to the dining room, around 6:00 that evening, and went on until 2AM the next morning.

We served six courses, nine dishes and five different wines that evening. The pasta course consisted of two different styles and types of pasta, the main course consisted of three dishes. The food was great, but the thing that made it so memorable was the time we took to relish each dish, spend time talking about it and sharing memories of our lives together. After each dish we took a small break, sipping wine and letting things settle before the next course. If memory serves me right, we consumed 16 bottles of wine that evening and no one went home intoxicated, maybe a tiny bit tipsy, but no one was drunk.

I was sitting at the head of the table. After we served one of the courses, I sat back in my chair, and sipped on the second or third red variety we opened that evening. I listened to the low din of voices and laughter, competing and harmonizing in a crescendo of real joy. At least it felt that way to me. I looked around the table and smiled to myself, not saying anything to anyone. I just wanted to absorb it, listen to it and remember it. A warm contentment spread over me as I realized how much I loved these people. How much they had come to mean to Suzanne and I. They had become family in our minds, in our hearts and always would be. When you share experiences, break bread, share food and drink with people, it happens. The power of food to bring us together is amazing. We seldom stop to think about its influence on our culture, ourselves and each other. Occasions, like that dinner, for the ten of us, mark those times when we are lucky enough to experience one of those moments. I was fortunate enough to “be in the moment”.

Ten of the adults in this picture made up that memorable dinner. All of these folks are our extended family!

This is the actual menu from that evening. A year, or so, ago, I found this one copy that I had saved. Like any document I want to preserve these days, I scanned it.

Menu for the evening

Obviously, I didn’t spend the entire evening in the kitchen. We did lots of prep work ahead of time, allowing us to savor and enjoy each dish. The breaks between each course gave everyone time to catch their breath and time for Suzanne and I to get the next course ready for the table.

The following year, the Wood Valley Gourmet Club used this same menu, with a couple of minor changes, for one of the monthly dinners. We so enjoyed those evenings. Those menus exposed us to some dishes we probably would never have tried on our own. Best of all, we always made new friends. There were more than 100 members. Each meal was set up so that no one host home had more than 8 to 10 persons. The menu courses were divided amongst the participants, the host usually providing the main course and wines. The costs were added up and then divided between each couple, deducting what they had already spent. Everyone shared the cost equally and the effort to make all the courses.

Gourmet night at the Pilolla’s

I plan to share each of the recipes in this menu over the next several weeks. Maybe you’ll be inspired to do something similar with your closest friends and companions. There’s no better way to show your love and how much you care! It might be a lot of work but it will be more than worth it when you reach that moment during your dinner party, and you feel deep inside….life is great!

This is my happiness in the kitchen. By one of my favorite artists, Will Rafuse.

Io sono contento! Cento anni di gioia! Cin Cin!

Question – What kind of menu would you put together for the ones you love? How would you change this one?

Festa Italiana alla Pilollas – Antipasti

Mamma-mia!….there are so many variations on this! You can start any meal, formal or informal, with a simple Antipasti, or you can make an elaborate dish with lots of different bites, Antipasti Misti. The evening of our Italian Feast at the Pilolla’s, we started with a small plate that included very small portions, small bites, of several items. We accompanied the Antipasti with a light and refreshing white wine.

Ingredients

This is what we did, but it could have been many other delicious things as well!

Large Green Olives

Kalamata Olives

Prosciutto – Rolled

Roasted Red Pepper – Sliced into 1″ strips

Bread Sticks

Making The Magic

This is a simple dish, but can be made elegant through its presentation. It’s all in how you plate it. Play with the layout, use small plates and go for color! People eat with their eyes, as much as their palates, so excite them with the variety and color.

Knowing this was going to be a long evening, we took our time, savoring each bite. We talked and laughed a bit and when the plates were empty, we didn’t get up right away to clear the dish. The great thing about this plate is you can prepare it ahead of time, we did this the day before. Plate the dish, covering each with plastic wrap, and storing it in the fridge.

Here’s a small list of possible small bites to use: Stuffed Green Olives, Kalamata Olives, Pepperoncini, Fresh Mozzarella Slice, Sliced Salami, Prosciutto, Cubed Provolone, Chunks of Parmesan, Pickled or Fresh Carrots, Roasted Red Peppers, Pickled Okra, any Variety of Italian cold cuts.

How you serve them depends on how formal and how large is your dinner party. Here’s some pictures that I hope will spark your creative ideas and help you imagine your own creation.

Serving your Antipasti on a board is less formal and allows folks to sample what they like.
Plating the dish can make simple, beautiful!
Simple and Delizioso make the taste buds ready!
Individual servings can be plated and refridgerated a day ahead of time!

Remember that you are setting up the dinner to come, with your Antipasti, so don’t over-do the portions. I generally don’t serve bread with this course. Breadsticks are great. They add a little crunchiness, light and easy to serve.

Wines We Love With This

With our Antipasti dish we served a nice Italian Frascati. Also great:

Pinot Grigio

Chardonnay – I prefer a stainless aged Chardonnay with this

Sauvignon Blanc – if you prefer something dry

Riesling – is sweeter and might also be better, depending on what you serve.

The night of our Italian Feast, we served 5 different wines, pairing each wine with the course we were serving. It was awesome! Just be sure to pace yourself. Our dinner went from 6:00PM to 2AM. There was plenty of time between courses to let things settle, sip more wine, enjoy each other’s company and absorb and be present in the evening.

Grandi amici, ottimo cibo, ottimo vino, ottimi ricordi!

Do you have a favorite Antipasti, something you like to share with friends and family? Share it with me. I’d love to add it to my list of favorites too!