This meat sauce is my absolute, goto, comfort food and I love making it every time. It is the first thing my Mom taught me to make when I was 12 or 13 years old. We had a very small home in Charlotte, NC and the kitchen was tiny. I am amazed at the wonderful things my Mom and my Dad would cook in that little kitchen. They always did it with love and I would sometimes just stand in the doorway and watch as the magic would happen. One day I asked Mom if she would show me how to make the “Spaghetti Sauce” she was starting. “Sure baby, but you have to promise me one thing. You will always clean up after yourself. Don’t make a mess like your father. I don’t want to have to slap you in the head.” I took that to heart, and to this day I always “clean as I go”. I’ve developed the technique over the years and it makes for a really enjoyable meal for everyone, because no one is facing all the clean up at the end of the meal. We spent two or three hours, chopping, crushing, browning, mixing and seasoning. My Mom was a very patient teacher and she loved to cook. That love was always in whatever she made. Like my Dad, she always wanted folks to find joy in what she served. I always think of them whenever I’m making this dish.
My mother gave me this basic recipe, and my father gave me his ideas on how to change it and make it different in at least two dozen ways. This recipe makes about 20 servings. I freeze the leftovers in two serving containers. I use a 30 Qt Stainless Stock pot, with a lid and it’s just over 1/3rd full with all the ingredients. An 11 or 12 Qt pot will just hold it. Of course, you can reduce the ingredients and make less sauce. You’ll need a long spoon because you’ll be stirring and mixing a lot.
The absolute first thing you need to do, so you can get this recipe right, is open a bottle of your favorite red wine and pour yourself a glass. If you feel it’s too early in the day, at the very least, put on the CD or tell Alexa to play the “The Three Tenors”. There’s nothing like sipping a good red wine and listening to great Italian arias as you make this sauce.
Prep Time: 45 minutes – Cooking Time: 1 to 6 hours
Ingredients
5 lbs – Ground chuck or leaner ground beef. I like the sauce meaty.
2 – large onions, chopped
8 – Garlic Cloves, finely chopped, or use 4t of jarred minced garlic
4 – 28oz cans Tomato Sauce or Pureé
2 – 28oz cans Crushed Tomatoes
2 – 28oz cans Diced Tomatoes
2 – 28oz cans Whole Tomatoes – San Marzano are incredible. Us them if you can get them
2 – large cans of Tomato Paste
2 – 14oz cans of drained sliced mushrooms or mushroom pieces
1/2 – 3/4 Bottle of CRR (cheap red wine) Dry
Olive Oil – the olive oil I use comes from a shop in Hickory. The quality of olive oil in recipes makes a HUGE difference in the results. I get mine at www.naturalolivehickory.com They do ship.
Dried Basil
Dried Oregano
Red Pepper Flakes – you can leave this out and add it to your smaller servings later, if you prefer.
Salt
Pepper
Pasta
Parmesan, Romano, Pecorino – any or all of these, grated or shaved

Making The Magic
Did you pour the glass of wine yet? If not, what are you waiting for? Love the process, love the food, love the people and a little wine always helps! Add 4 to 5 T of Olive Oil. Heat the pot to Medium High and just as the oil starts to swirl, drop the onions into the pot. Let them sizzle and stir them to coat everything in your Olive Oil. Add oil if you need to. The quantity doesn’t need to be precise. Reduce the heat to Medium.
While this is cooking I like to start opening all the cans that I’ll be using.
Doesn’t Pavarroti, Domingo and Carerras sound great?
Once the onions start to soften, stir in your minced or chopped garlic. Stir a bit to let the flavor of the garlic and onions continue to infuse the oil. Salt and pepper should be added. Things should still be sizzling. If not, increase the heat slightly.
Smell the air in the kitchen! My favorite smell when cooking, onions, garlic and olive oil.
After about 3 minutes, lower the heat. In a large pot add 1T Olive oil and start crumbling the ground beef into the pot. Leave some of it in chunks. Stir and toss the ground beef so it mixes with the salt and pepper to taste. Continue as you stir in more and more of the ground beef. Cook all the beef thoroughly, removing any liquid that cooks out of the beef. I like to use a splatter screen over the top and then pour the liquid into a disposable jar. When the majority of the liquid is removed, you’re ready for the next step.
Take another sip of wine. If “Nessun Dorma” is playing, lower the heat and just stop. Listen to this incredible aria. You don’t need to understand a single word, but I guarantee you will have goose bumps and tear up, not because of the onions either.
Add your cooked beef to the pot with the onions and garlic. Mix thoroughly. Turn up the heat to Medium. Next add the 4 cans of Tomato sauce and let the heat come back up. You may want to increase the heat to Medium High until everything is added. Just mind the splattering and reduce the heat if it gets out of hand. Next add the Crushed Tomatoes. Add salt and pepper to taste. Stir everything in and make sure you stir deeply to bring the bottom to the top.
Okay, now you want to add the drained mushrooms and stir them in.

Add a couple of Tablespoons of dried basil. Rub the basil in your palms and crush it into the sauce. Add a couple of Tablespoons of dried oregano. Again, rubbing the herbs between your palms and crushing it into the sauce. Smell your hands. Delicious! Add Red Pepper flakes to your taste, or don’t add any at all. A tablespoon will give this enough heat to buzz the back of your throat. Not overwhelming, but enough to let you know it’s there. Stir in thoroughly and deeply.
Take another sip of wine.
Add the Diced Tomatoes and Whole Tomatoes. If you can get the San Marzano whole tomatoes from Cento, these are by far the best. Mash and break the Whole Tomatoes up. I know, why add whole tomatoes if you’re going to break them up? Well, the larger chunks add texture and the juices inside the tomatoes will add a prefect balance of acid, sour and sweetness to the flavor. Salt and Pepper to taste. Stir thoroughly and deeply.
Finally, add the Tomato Paste. Stir in thoroughly. You want to spread the thick paste through out the sauce. It helps to thicken the sauce and the intensity of the paste adds a richness to the flavor. I sometimes add more.
Add another 2 Tablespoons each of dried Basil and Oregano, following the same instructions above.
Take another sip of wine and add the final ingredient.
Pour in 1/2 bottle of wine (CRW) or more, as long as you leave about an inch or so in the pot. Stir thoroughly.

When you see the sauce start to bubble at the top, reduce the heat to low and cover. You want the sauce to simmer for at least one hour, the longer the better. I usually have mine on simmer for about 6 hours. When I give this a long simmer I will uncover the pot and raise the heat to Medium Low for about an hour, at the end. Come back once every hour or so and gently stir the sauce. Keep mixing the flavors. Love what’s going on in that pot as the acidity and flavor of all the different tomatoes, the beef, the onions and garlic, the basil and oregano, the red pepper flakes blend and build on top of one another. If you find your sauce is too hot from the red pepper flakes, add sugar to reduce the heat.
Don’t be afraid to taste it. Adjust your seasonings as you go, depending on your tastebuds.
Minutes before you’re ready to serve, cook your pasta. Just before you’re ready to serve this, put on a pot filled half way with water and add plenty of salt. DO NOT add olive oil or any oil to your pasta water. The oil coating on the pasta makes it difficult for the sauce to cling to the pasta. I learned this from my wife, Suzanne. She kept telling me for years, “Don’t put oil in the water.” I didn’t understand why until she showed me how the sauce wasn’t clinging to the pasta. Duhhh!
When the pasta is done, I prefer al dente, so the pasta has a firm texture, drain it thoroughly and plate it. Lovingly ladle the sauce over the pasta. Remember this sauce has been bubbling for 1 to 6 hours and the flavors have been blending and introducing themselves to one another, so ladle with love. Serve this with a warm, crusty bread and butter. Have the grated or shaved cheeses on the table to sprinkle as you eat. I like to add some at the beginning of the meal and pile on more as I go.

Consider restarting the “Three Tenors” CD, or asking Alexa to replay it, when you sit down to eat. You got to listen to this beautiful music while you were making your masterpiece, now share it!
Bread – I’m a miserable failure at baking bread. Baking perfect bread is a science and an art. I’ve tried numerous times and just can’t get it right consistently. I have, once or twice, but I’ve had so many failures I decided to hunt for a bread I could rely on. In late 2019 I found the perfect bread. We don’t have any bakeries here in Hickory that make the kind of bread I love. A hard, crunchy, crusty exterior and a chewy, airy interior are perfection. When I pull the bread apart I want it to tear jaggedly and irregularly and the crust crunch and pop. Crumbs need to fly everywhere! After many experiments, I found it. At Aldis grocery stores they sell “Specially Selected – Artisan Italian Bread” and “Specially Selected – Artisan French Baguette”. I keep several loaves of each in the freezer and pull one out ahead of time to let it thaw. You have to finish the baking of this bread. It is as close to what we used to buy, from a little French bakery in London, as anything I’ve found in the US. I bake it for the longest time suggested on the directions and even a little longer, sometimes. Either of these are great with this dish. The Italian one is more loaf like. The French one is a Baguette, long and skinny. You can’t go wrong with this bread!
Variations to keep it new…
You can do any of these variations with the leftover servings that you’ve frozen. That keeps the recipe basic and allows you to use it in a whole lot of ways.
Sometimes I like to pan fry some sweet or mild Italian sausage and add that to the recipe. I don’t add them whole, but cut the sausages into 1/2″ pieces after they are cooked.
I’ve also added leftover pork tenderloin, especially if I’ve grilled it with my Italian Seasoning rub. I cut it into 1/2″ thick slices and then the slices into quarters.
Leftover chicken, chopped and added to the sauce is also a great way to add texture and stretch the meal.
Use this sauce when making Lasagne. It’s awesome!
Wines we love with this…
It often depends on the mood and the variation that I make but here’s a list that we like. If you have a favorite, go with it. I would recommend a dry red. Whites won’t stand up to the acidity and spiciness of this sauce.
Barolo
Merlot
Cabernet Sauvignon
Gattinara – Travaglini is my favorite vintner of this wine, but it is hard to find and not just a table wine. This is my absolute favorite dry red of any and all reds.
Zinfandel
Chianti – Of course!
Leftovers
Unless you are feeding a really large party with this dish, you will have leftovers. I freeze this sauce in reusable containers that are large enough to hold two servings in each. A serving is 1 1/2 to 2 ladles of sauce per person. It’s always handy for when you forget to take something out for dinner, or just need some for quick preparation. It’s also great for other recipes. The flavors only intensify when you thaw and heat this sauce a second or third time! I’ve used this in Lasagne, when I make a Timpano, Baked Ziti, for Steak Pizzaiola, in a Beef Braciole, well you get the idea.
I hope you enjoy this. Remember, make it with love, make it with care and care for the ones you love!
Cento di questi giorni! Salud! Cin cin!
Question of the day – Do you have a favorite table wine? Defined as one that you enjoy and drink fairly often, maybe daily, and isn’t too expensive.