Dinner & A Movie – Timpano alla Big Night

Movies that celebrate food, friendship, caring and love are some of my favorites. Big Night, starring Stanley Tucci, Tony Shalhoub, Minnie Driver, Isabella Rossellini, Ian Holm, Allison Janney, Campbell Scott and many other supporting actors is a story about two Italian immigrant brothers who own a struggling Italian restaurant named Paradise. The story swirls around their personal relationships and the fact that preparing and serving real Italian food in the late-1950’s can make you go broke, no matter how good and authentic it is. A “spaghetti and meatballs” restaurant down the street is always packed because the owner gives his customers what they expect and want in 1950’s America. The owner of the successful restaurant offers to help the two brothers put their place on the map with one Big Night, thereby saving the Paradise from financial ruin. So many plot twists and stories in this beautifully made film.

Food, Family, Friends, Love

Stanley Tucci says this film is semi-autobiographical, but I don’t know where his life and the story cross. He cowrote and co-directed the film with Campbell Scott. Suzanne and I met Campbell Scott when he and Melanie Lansky starred in a film, Eye of the Hurricane, that was largely shot in St Marys, GA. We were living there at the time and Suzanne was asked to be an extra in several scenes. Suzanne is in the very middle of the screen in the opening scene of the film. Also in some additional scenes in the movie.

I guess I got off track there. Timpano is one of the big dishes, and there are several, in Big Night. When I saw this being made and the resulting dish that comes out of their oven, I decided at that exact moment, I’m going to make that! There’s a palpable reaction to the presentation and slicing into this beautiful Italian specialty. There’s so much joy being shared in these scenes you can’t help but share in the experience, even if you’re not sampling the fare being brought to the table. I find myself, Ooooing and Ahhhhing along with the characters in the movie every time a new dish comes out of the kitchen. I can feel my belly about to explode and the warm sense of total satisfaction sort of flow from head to toes as the meal creeps towards its conclusion. This is an entire evening of dining, not a quick meal and then a dash off to do something else.

It so much reminds me of family meals when we were growing up. Going for Sunday dinner at my Grandfather’s, Francis Pilolla, was an all day event and totally unhurried. Grandpa was a small, wiry man with a huge smile and strong hugs. The only thing I remember him wearing was a baggy pair of black trousers, white shirt and a brown cardigan sweater, with one of the buttons missing. He always seemed to have an unlit, crooked Italian cigar in the corner of his mouth. I think they were called Toscanelli or Toscanni or something like that. It felt as if he was cooking all day and when we finally sat down to eat he made sure we savored the meal, took out time. If we started to eat too fast he would make us put a fork of food in our mouth and then sit on our hands until we had chewed and swallowed each bite. Everybody had wine, which he made in the cellar every year. Two hundred gallons of red and one hundred gallons of white. Everyone drank from short tumblers. For the kids, it was just a splash of wine added to water to fill the glass. Bread was broken by hand and passed around the table. Crumbs flew all over the place! Oh how I wish I had been old enough to appreciate the moments and the memories that were being created at the time. What I do remember is glorious and those memories are evoked every time I watch Big Night.

This mouth-watering recipe is the same one that’s prepared in the film, with my own, added twists. There are many, many variations. You can experiment and make it your own. This dish will serve 10 to 14 people, depending on how hungry your guests are and what else you serve with it.

I recommend preparing some of the ingredients ahead of time, and storing them in the fridge. This is a real project, so do as much ahead of time as you can. That way you won’t be totally worn out when it comes time to sit down and enjoy it.

Prep Time: About 3 hours – Cook Time: 90 minutes – Rest Time: 30 minutes

I broke this down into 5 major steps, preparing the inside ingredients, making the dough and lining the “Timpano” pot, filling the dough with the ingredients, baking the Timpano, removing and serving the Timpano. You can also assemble this a day or two ahead of time, bring it up to room temperature and then bake it on the day you want to serve it. Also, you can assemble it and freeze it. It will take at least three days in the fridge to thaw. Then bring it to room temperature and bake it.

Ingredients

A bottle of your favorite red wine for sipping.

FOR THE DOUGH

If the fillings are already made and stored in the fridge, take them out of the fridge and let them start to warm up.

4C – TIPO “00” soft wheat flour. It’s a specific kind of wheat grown in Bologna, for pasta and this kind of dough. I like the Caputo brand that Publix carries. All Purpose flour will also work

4 – Large eggs

1t – Kosher salt, salt or regular salt will also work.

3T – Water

3T – Olive oil, I prefer the Extra Virgin olive oil I get from The Natural Olive in Hickory.

FOR THE FILLING

Make as much of this ahead of time as possible. Store it in the fridge and take it out to warm up when you start making the dough.

6 – Italian sausage links, mild

2 – Large onions, Vidalia, if you can find them, work best

5 – Slices of provolone

2C – Mozzarella, shredded

3 – 28oz cans crushed tomatoes, I prefer Cento, if you can get them.

8 – Eggs, hardboiled, shelled, cut in half

15 slices – Italian salami, hard

4C – Meatballs, you can make your own, but there are some great products on the market. Publix has a good Italian style meatball made with pork and beef. I also like DiRusso’s Italian style meatballs that are all beef. If you already have a favorite, use it.

1box – Large shell pasta, cooked al dente, or slightly less

1/2 box – Rigatoni, cooked al dente, or slightly less

2C – Ricotta cheese

1/2C – Parmesan, finely grated

8C – Marinara sauce or you can use your leftover Bolognese that I covered a few weeks ago. I prefer the Marinara. It’s a simple, tomato sauce, made with crushed tomatoes, olive oil, garlic, basil, oregano, salt and pepper. This is what the 3, 28oz cans of crushed tomatoes are for.

1C – Pecorino Romano, fine grated

8 – Garlic cloves, peeled

4T – Basil, fresh, chopped

3T – Basil, dried

3T – Oregano, dried

Olive Oil

Butter

Salt

Pepper

Making The Magic

Make the Marinara

In a large sauce pot, add 1/3C of Olive Oil and heat to medium high. Drop in the whole garlic cloves and let them sizzle in the oil, stirring occasionally for about 10 to 15 minutes. Reduce the heat after about 5 minutes. Let the garlic start to soften and brown in the hot oil. When the cloves are soft, remove them from the oil and set aside.

Take a sip of wine or two!

Start adding the crushed tomatoes. You may need to lower the heat so it doesn’t splatter. Once the crushed tomatoes are in the pot, bring it up to a simmer.

A nice thick Marinara

Add 3T dried basil, rubbing and crushing it in your hands. Do the same with the 3T dried oregano. Smell your hands now. Isn’t the aroma incredible?! Salt and pepper to taste. Let the sauce simmer on low heat while you work on the rest of this.

Make the Pasta and the Stuffing

Cook about 20 shells until they are al dente or slightly less. They will cook more inside the Timpano. Once cooked, drain and set them in the fridge to cool.

In a bowl, mix the ricotta and finely grated parmesan. Add the chopped fresh basil and 1t of Olive Oil. Salt and pepper to taste.

Another sip of wine fits nicely at this point.

Remove the shells from the fridge and stuff each shell, approximately 15 to 20, with the cheese mixture. Put them aside, until you are ready to use them.

While you’re stuffing the shells, cook your Rigatoni, al dente or less. When they are finished cooking, drain and return to the pot. Add 1/2 to 1C of the Marinara, enough to coat the pasta, and set aside.

Make the Salami, Sausage and Meatballs

If you’re using frozen meatballs, take them out of the freezer to thaw. If you’ve made your own, you’re awesome and you deserve an extra sip of wine right now!

Start cooking your sausage. In a large pan, add a teaspoon of olive oil and spread it around. You only want to coat the pan, so the sausage doesn’t stick. Heat the pan to medium and add the sausage. You want these to cook most of the way through, so 10 to 15 minutes will be enough time. Turn the sausage several times to brown the outside, all the way round. When the sausages are cooked, remove them from the heat and let them cool on a cutting board for about 15 minutes. Have a Paper towel nearby to catch the juices that seep out.

Slice the sausage into 1 1/2 to 2 inch pieces and set aside.

Have you Salami slices out of the fridge and separated.

Make the Onions

In a large pan add 3T of Olive Oil and 3T of Butter. Melt the butter on medium heat. While the pan is heating, peel and slice the onions in half. Cut each half into 1/4 inch slices and drop them into the heated oil and butter. Stir thoroughly so the onions are coated with the oil.

Sip some more wine……stir the onions……sip some wine……stir the onions……sip some wine, well you get the idea. Cook the onions until they are limp and start to darken. At the end, salt and upper to taste and finish the onions off by cooking another 3 or 4 minutes. Once finished, remove from the heat and set aside.

All your fillings are now ready, so let’s get started on the dough.

Make the Timpano Dough

You can mix all the ingredients in a mixing bowl with a heavy duty mixer and dough hook. I prefer to do this on the counter top, by hand. I like to develop the dough and feel the texture change until it’s just right. Start with the flour, making a well for the eggs. Add the salt, olive oil and 3T of water. mix and blend the ingredients. As you work the dough you may want to add a small amount of water, in addition to the 3T, to develop the dough into a soft ball. It may be a little tacky, but not sticky.

Once you have a nice dough ball, lightly dust the counter top with flour. Begin kneading the dough and continue for up to 10 minutes, just to be sure it is well mixed. Stop kneading when you know it is and set it aside to rest for 5 minutes.

Lightly dust the counter top again and begin to roll the dough out. You’re going to make a large round “Pizza looking thing”. It should be large enough to cover the bottom of your dutch oven, or whatever pot you have chosen, come up the sides and then fold over the top of your fillings to seal it. Roll it so the dough is an even thickness all over. I use a 9 1/2″ cast iron, ceramic coated, dutch oven that’s 5″ deep. The cast iron heats evenly and helps to insure an all around browning of the baked dough. I roll my dough out to 28″ – 30″ across the center. Once it’s that large, fold in half and then quarter so you can place it and position it in the pot without tearing it.

Rub the inside of your Timpano Pot with a light coating of Olive Oil or butter, lightly dust with flour. Place the rolled out dough into the pot. You’ll slowly open the folded dough and gently position it so it’s even on all sides. The excess dough will drape over the edge of the pot.

Whew! Drink some more wine! If you’ve already drained what you poured, pour some more.

Building the Timpano

Pre-Heat the oven to 350°

Spoon in your coated Rigatoni, making a nice layer in the bottom.

Cover the Rigatoni with the shredded Mozzarella.

Place the Meatballs on the bed of Mozzarella and cover them with a thin layer of Marinara. Sparingly.

Place your stuffed shells in next, arrange and stack them so you end up with a nice layer.

Spoon some of your Marinara over the shells, enough to lightly coat them, but not swimming in the sauce. Use the Marinara sparingly. This is only to add a little moisture and enhance the flavor. Too much will make it soggy.

Place the sliced Salami on top of the sauce.

Any wine left in your glass? Take a sip.

Layer the Pecorino Romano on the Salami.

Layer the halved eggs on top of the Pecorino Romano.

Cover the eggs with the carmelized onions.

Place the sliced sausage on top of the onions.

Top all of this with the sliced Provolone.

Use the Marinara sparingly. Think of it like the pizza sauce that is on your pizza. Too much makes the pizza soggy.

Fold the dough over the top of all and seal it. Cut any excess dough out and slightly moisten the dough where it overlaps to help make it seal.

Baking the Timpano

Put the Timpano in your pre-heated 350° oven, uncovered. Bake for about 1 hour, until the top is lightly browned. Cover the Timpano with the lid from the dutch oven or aluminum foil and bake for another 30 minutes. If you want the baked dough to be slightly darker, leave it uncovered for a longer period. You want the internal temperature of the Timpano to reach about 120°. Remove it from the oven and let it rest for another 30 minutes.

Enjoy a glass of Pinot Grigio and a Caprese Salad while you wait. The red we started with was a TCM Special!

After it’s cool and allowed to set, turn the Timpano onto a cutting board so you can slice into servings. Be careful when you do this. The pot will still be hot and this is heavy.

See the video on Facebook @ It’s My Kitchen

I’m thumping the Timpano the same way you thump a watermelon to see if it’s “ripe”. I just wanted to know if it was solid at the top and not hollow. Things will have cooked down a bit.

Plate the Dish

Stab into the top of your Timpano and slice, moving your knife up and down and then backward and forward as you slice downward and towards yourself. Have a plate with a bed of your delicious Marinara, next to the Timpano. Once you cut a slice free, lift it and move it to the plate, laying it on its side.

Mouthwatering and filling. Delizioso!

There are some videos on Facebook at It’s My Kitchen that shows the flipping and the slicing techniques. Also, the Ooooos and Ahhhhhs when your friends see your creation!

Variations To Keep It New

Wow. There are so many. I’ll list a few, but let your imagination run wild and make this your own.

Seasoned ground sausage or ground beef. Ziti, tossed in the marinara to replace the Rigatoni, or the shells or both. Pepperoni, instead of Salami. Add a layer of fresh spinach. Make a layer with sautéed Egg Plant.

Wines We Love With This

Anything that is red, bold and can stand up to the intense flavors of the meets and sauce. More importantly, any wine you like, and is a favorite, is the one to enjoy!

Barolo

Cabernet Sauvignon

Zinfandel

Gattinara – Traviglini is my favorite red of any and all. Hops and Grapes will order it for you in Hickory. It might be a challenge to find, but it is so worth the hunt!

Leftovers

Only if you don’t have enough folks over to share it. In which case, you want to save some of the Marinara. I have reheated this in the oven, cover with foil, at 350°, with the slices laying in a bed of Marinara. I think I did this for about 20 minutes. Haven’t had to do it often.

So, I told you this would be a project and I didn’t lie. The thing is, when you make it for people you care about, it isn’t a project. It’s an absolute expression of love and caring. You will know it when you make this and bring it to the table. Those at the table will know it because they’ll see the time and effort it took to craft such a beautiful dish. And best of all….now you’re all going to enjoy a wonderful meal together!

Famiglia e amici per sempre! Cin cin alla salute!

Do you have a favorite dish and moment that you shared with others, and it’s still vivid in your memory?

Festa Italiana alla Pilollas

Years ago, I suddenly had an urge to prepare a truly memorable, Italian feast for our closest friends. It was 1993 and we lived in Raleigh, NC, in a neighborhood called Wood Valley. While there, we developed close, personal friendships that have lasted to this day. We were there for seven years and even though we’ve been tumbleweeds and moved many places since then, I have some of my fondest memories from that time and the people we shared our lives with.

Wood Valley was and is a great community!

Anyway, I wanted the meal to be special. I wanted the invite to be more than ordinary and I wanted to serve and enjoy the meal the same way that most Europeans did at the time. We had moved to Raleigh, almost directly from London, having spent 5 years there. Suzanne and I almost felt more European than American at that time. We wanted to cling to some parts of that experience, and were able to do so, because our close friends had also traveled abroad. I knew they would appreciate and love the effort and the care that went into what was planned. Suzanne and I worked on the menu for weeks together and the dishes we came up with were pretty good, even if I do say so myself. I’m pretty sure that I’m speaking for all of us when I say it was a most memorable evening. The meal started with a glass or two of wine in the kitchen, while Suzanne and I were doing some last minute preparations. It then moved to the dining room, around 6:00 that evening, and went on until 2AM the next morning.

We served six courses, nine dishes and five different wines that evening. The pasta course consisted of two different styles and types of pasta, the main course consisted of three dishes. The food was great, but the thing that made it so memorable was the time we took to relish each dish, spend time talking about it and sharing memories of our lives together. After each dish we took a small break, sipping wine and letting things settle before the next course. If memory serves me right, we consumed 16 bottles of wine that evening and no one went home intoxicated, maybe a tiny bit tipsy, but no one was drunk.

I was sitting at the head of the table. After we served one of the courses, I sat back in my chair, and sipped on the second or third red variety we opened that evening. I listened to the low din of voices and laughter, competing and harmonizing in a crescendo of real joy. At least it felt that way to me. I looked around the table and smiled to myself, not saying anything to anyone. I just wanted to absorb it, listen to it and remember it. A warm contentment spread over me as I realized how much I loved these people. How much they had come to mean to Suzanne and I. They had become family in our minds, in our hearts and always would be. When you share experiences, break bread, share food and drink with people, it happens. The power of food to bring us together is amazing. We seldom stop to think about its influence on our culture, ourselves and each other. Occasions, like that dinner, for the ten of us, mark those times when we are lucky enough to experience one of those moments. I was fortunate enough to “be in the moment”.

Ten of the adults in this picture made up that memorable dinner. All of these folks are our extended family!

This is the actual menu from that evening. A year, or so, ago, I found this one copy that I had saved. Like any document I want to preserve these days, I scanned it.

Menu for the evening

Obviously, I didn’t spend the entire evening in the kitchen. We did lots of prep work ahead of time, allowing us to savor and enjoy each dish. The breaks between each course gave everyone time to catch their breath and time for Suzanne and I to get the next course ready for the table.

The following year, the Wood Valley Gourmet Club used this same menu, with a couple of minor changes, for one of the monthly dinners. We so enjoyed those evenings. Those menus exposed us to some dishes we probably would never have tried on our own. Best of all, we always made new friends. There were more than 100 members. Each meal was set up so that no one host home had more than 8 to 10 persons. The menu courses were divided amongst the participants, the host usually providing the main course and wines. The costs were added up and then divided between each couple, deducting what they had already spent. Everyone shared the cost equally and the effort to make all the courses.

Gourmet night at the Pilolla’s

I plan to share each of the recipes in this menu over the next several weeks. Maybe you’ll be inspired to do something similar with your closest friends and companions. There’s no better way to show your love and how much you care! It might be a lot of work but it will be more than worth it when you reach that moment during your dinner party, and you feel deep inside….life is great!

This is my happiness in the kitchen. By one of my favorite artists, Will Rafuse.

Io sono contento! Cento anni di gioia! Cin Cin!

Question – What kind of menu would you put together for the ones you love? How would you change this one?

Festa Italiana alla Pilollas – Antipasti

Mamma-mia!….there are so many variations on this! You can start any meal, formal or informal, with a simple Antipasti, or you can make an elaborate dish with lots of different bites, Antipasti Misti. The evening of our Italian Feast at the Pilolla’s, we started with a small plate that included very small portions, small bites, of several items. We accompanied the Antipasti with a light and refreshing white wine.

Ingredients

This is what we did, but it could have been many other delicious things as well!

Large Green Olives

Kalamata Olives

Prosciutto – Rolled

Roasted Red Pepper – Sliced into 1″ strips

Bread Sticks

Making The Magic

This is a simple dish, but can be made elegant through its presentation. It’s all in how you plate it. Play with the layout, use small plates and go for color! People eat with their eyes, as much as their palates, so excite them with the variety and color.

Knowing this was going to be a long evening, we took our time, savoring each bite. We talked and laughed a bit and when the plates were empty, we didn’t get up right away to clear the dish. The great thing about this plate is you can prepare it ahead of time, we did this the day before. Plate the dish, covering each with plastic wrap, and storing it in the fridge.

Here’s a small list of possible small bites to use: Stuffed Green Olives, Kalamata Olives, Pepperoncini, Fresh Mozzarella Slice, Sliced Salami, Prosciutto, Cubed Provolone, Chunks of Parmesan, Pickled or Fresh Carrots, Roasted Red Peppers, Pickled Okra, any Variety of Italian cold cuts.

How you serve them depends on how formal and how large is your dinner party. Here’s some pictures that I hope will spark your creative ideas and help you imagine your own creation.

Serving your Antipasti on a board is less formal and allows folks to sample what they like.
Plating the dish can make simple, beautiful!
Simple and Delizioso make the taste buds ready!
Individual servings can be plated and refridgerated a day ahead of time!

Remember that you are setting up the dinner to come, with your Antipasti, so don’t over-do the portions. I generally don’t serve bread with this course. Breadsticks are great. They add a little crunchiness, light and easy to serve.

Wines We Love With This

With our Antipasti dish we served a nice Italian Frascati. Also great:

Pinot Grigio

Chardonnay – I prefer a stainless aged Chardonnay with this

Sauvignon Blanc – if you prefer something dry

Riesling – is sweeter and might also be better, depending on what you serve.

The night of our Italian Feast, we served 5 different wines, pairing each wine with the course we were serving. It was awesome! Just be sure to pace yourself. Our dinner went from 6:00PM to 2AM. There was plenty of time between courses to let things settle, sip more wine, enjoy each other’s company and absorb and be present in the evening.

Grandi amici, ottimo cibo, ottimo vino, ottimi ricordi!

Do you have a favorite Antipasti, something you like to share with friends and family? Share it with me. I’d love to add it to my list of favorites too!

Dinner & A Movie – Ratatouille

In a previous post I shared my secret recipe for popcorn and a short list of my favorite movies about food, cooking, friendship, family and love. This week I’m sharing a recipe from one of those movies, Ratatouille. I guess it’s not surprising that I experience the same sort of emotions when cooking, sharing and eating a special dish or meal with people I love, as I do when watching some of my favorite stories told through movies. When we watch movies together, we share emotions. We experience the emotions of something we may never have an opportunity to do or live through ourselves. Sometimes, the story reflects our own, personal experiences. That’s when a story really connects! That’s how food can affect us too. Connecting us to memories, to experiences, and to those we love!

“Anyone can be a chef – if they love what they’re doing”

In Ratatouille, a wee creature, through the help of his human friend, and their common love of food, reconnects a cynical food critic to the reasons he embarked on his career in the first place. The scene that plays this out in the story is one of my favorites. The joy that Amon Ego, that’s the food critic’s name, finds in the moment is palpable. As you watch the emotions roll across his face, and he recalls some of his most cherished childhood memories, it evokes the same “reconnecting” in the viewer. It is a scientific fact that smells and aromas are the most deeply implanted memories we have. That is true, throughout nature and it’s why I sometimes have the most vivid memories of my mother, or father, grandfather or grandmother or many other family members, when a smell hits me. It’s powerful!

Gather all your ingredients

This is the same recipe from the movie Ratatouille. It can be the center of your meal, or a side dish. It will make up to 8 servings.

Prep time: 45 minutes   –   Cooking time: 40 to 60 minutes

Ingredients

Veggies

Slice thin enough to cook, 1/8″ or so

2-3 – skinny eggplants, Italian, if they’re available. If not you can slice and quarter the larger eggplants

6 – Roma tomatoes, more meaty, less seeds

2 – yellow squash

2 – zucchini

The Sauce

Makes the bed for the vegetables

2T – olive oil – The quality of your olive oil makes a huge difference in flavor. My favorite comes from a shop in Hickory, NC. If you can’t visit The Natural Olive, check out their web site. www.naturalolivehickory.com They do ship.

1 – onion, diced, I prefer Vidalia sweet onions

1 – red bell pepper, diced

1 – yellow bell pepper, diced

4 – garlic cloves, minced or finely chopped

Salt to taste

Pepper to taste

28oz – crushed tomatoes, canned. I prefer Cento, if it’s available.

8-10 – basil leaves, fresh, chopped, about 2T

Herb Seasoning

So much flavor in this little bowl

4T – olive oil

8-10 – basil leaves, fresh, chopped, about 2T

2T – fresh parsley, chopped

2t – thyme, fresh

1t – garlic, minced

Salt to taste

Pepper to taste

Making the Magic

Preheat your oven to 350°.

Slice the eggplants, the squash, zucchini and tomatoes into 1/8” to ¼” slices. Not too thin or the veggies will end up mushy. Too thick and they will have less flavor and may be too firm. You don’t need to measure, and it doesn’t need to be perfect. Set the sliced veggies aside. 

Make the Herb Seasoning. In a small bowl, thoroughly mix the fresh basil, garlic, parsley, thyme, salt, pepper and olive oil. Set aside.

Make the Sauce. Heat your olive oil to medium high. Add the onion, garlic and bell peppers. Sauté until they are soft. I sometimes reduce the oil and add butter. Salt and pepper to taste. Add the crushed tomatoes and stir until thoroughly mixed. Remove from the heat and add the fresh basil. Blend into the sauté mixture.

Transfer your beautiful sauce to a baking dish large enough to hold all your veggies. At least 12 inches. If you have leftover veggies they will make a great breakfast hash. Smooth the sauce evenly over the bottom of the dish. You’re creating a “bed” for the veggies. Starting from the outer edge of your dish begin stacking your veggies, on their edge, in an alternating pattern, working in a spiral, towards the middle, until you fill the dish. Eggplant, tomato, zucchini, squash, repeat.

Beautiful and delicious

Stir your herb mixture. Spoon it over the top of the veggies in your dish. Salt and pepper to taste.

Cover your dish. Best is to cut a piece of parchment to fit down, into the dish. The parchment prevents browning of the top of the veggies and allows steam to escape while it’s baking. Next best is to cover with a piece of foil, cut to fit down inside the dish. Place in the oven and bake for 40 minutes. Uncover and bake another 20 minutes. Monitor the progress of the veggies. Cook them to the tenderness you prefer. I prefer soft, but not mushy. For effect, take the dish out of the oven and put the parchment back on top of the dish.

Bring the dish to the table covered. Then, when everybody is looking and anticipating, pull the cover off and say, TADAH! OR as the French would say, Bon Apetit!

Variations to keep this new

After removing the cover and baking for about 10 minutes, sprinkle heavily with shredded Mozzarella and Parmesan, or just Parmesan. The Mozarella will make a stringy coating on top. The Parmesan will brown more quickly and toast on top.

Different, infused olive oils, will add subtle flavors.

Wines we love with this.

Dry Rose

Chianti

Chardonnay

Leftovers

Reheat in the oven at 350° with cheese on top. Serve on top of toasted Italian or sour dough bread. If the slices are dried out, it works best. The toast will end up crunchy. Toast the bread until it is brown and drizzle with olive oil. Try different, infused olive oil to change up the flavor.

This is also awesome with soft scrambled eggs and a crunchy French Baguette.

Bon appétit mon amour!

Question: How would you change this dish? Could this be a vegetarian main dish? Please tell me if you have seen the movie and did you like it.

Bolognese Della Mia Famiglia

This meat sauce is my absolute, goto, comfort food and I love making it every time. It is the first thing my Mom taught me to make when I was 12 or 13 years old. We had a very small home in Charlotte, NC and the kitchen was tiny. I am amazed at the wonderful things my Mom and my Dad would cook in that little kitchen. They always did it with love and I would sometimes just stand in the doorway and watch as the magic would happen. One day I asked Mom if she would show me how to make the “Spaghetti Sauce” she was starting. “Sure baby, but you have to promise me one thing. You will always clean up after yourself. Don’t make a mess like your father. I don’t want to have to slap you in the head.” I took that to heart, and to this day I always “clean as I go”. I’ve developed the technique over the years and it makes for a really enjoyable meal for everyone, because no one is facing all the clean up at the end of the meal. We spent two or three hours, chopping, crushing, browning, mixing and seasoning. My Mom was a very patient teacher and she loved to cook. That love was always in whatever she made. Like my Dad, she always wanted folks to find joy in what she served. I always think of them whenever I’m making this dish.

My mother gave me this basic recipe, and my father gave me his ideas on how to change it and make it different in at least two dozen ways. This recipe makes about 20 servings. I freeze the leftovers in two serving containers. I use a 30 Qt Stainless Stock pot, with a lid and it’s just over 1/3rd full with all the ingredients. An 11 or 12 Qt pot will just hold it. Of course, you can reduce the ingredients and make less sauce. You’ll need a long spoon because you’ll be stirring and mixing a lot.

The absolute first thing you need to do, so you can get this recipe right, is open a bottle of your favorite red wine and pour yourself a glass. If you feel it’s too early in the day, at the very least, put on the CD or tell Alexa to play the “The Three Tenors”. There’s nothing like sipping a good red wine and listening to great Italian arias as you make this sauce.

Prep Time: 45 minutes – Cooking Time: 1 to 6 hours

Ingredients

5 lbs – Ground chuck or leaner ground beef. I like the sauce meaty.

2 – large onions, chopped

8 – Garlic Cloves, finely chopped, or use 4t of jarred minced garlic

4 – 28oz cans Tomato Sauce or Pureé

2 – 28oz cans Crushed Tomatoes

2 – 28oz cans Diced Tomatoes

2 – 28oz cans Whole Tomatoes – San Marzano are incredible. Us them if you can get them

2 – large cans of Tomato Paste

2 – 14oz cans of drained sliced mushrooms or mushroom pieces

1/2 – 3/4 Bottle of CRR (cheap red wine) Dry

Olive Oil – the olive oil I use comes from a shop in Hickory. The quality of olive oil in recipes makes a HUGE difference in the results. I get mine at www.naturalolivehickory.com They do ship.

Dried Basil

Dried Oregano

Red Pepper Flakes – you can leave this out and add it to your smaller servings later, if you prefer.

Salt

Pepper

Pasta

Parmesan, Romano, Pecorino – any or all of these, grated or shaved

I cook and add the sausage later. If you can’t find Cento, Tuttorosso is also good. If your store has them, try to get the San Marzano (Cento) peeled tomatoes. Delizioso!

Making The Magic

Did you pour the glass of wine yet? If not, what are you waiting for? Love the process, love the food, love the people and a little wine always helps! Add 4 to 5 T of Olive Oil. Heat the pot to Medium High and just as the oil starts to swirl, drop the onions into the pot. Let them sizzle and stir them to coat everything in your Olive Oil. Add oil if you need to. The quantity doesn’t need to be precise. Reduce the heat to Medium.

While this is cooking I like to start opening all the cans that I’ll be using.

Doesn’t Pavarroti, Domingo and Carerras sound great?

Once the onions start to soften, stir in your minced or chopped garlic. Stir a bit to let the flavor of the garlic and onions continue to infuse the oil. Salt and pepper should be added. Things should still be sizzling. If not, increase the heat slightly.

Smell the air in the kitchen! My favorite smell when cooking, onions, garlic and olive oil.

After about 3 minutes, lower the heat. In a large pot add 1T Olive oil and start crumbling the ground beef into the pot. Leave some of it in chunks. Stir and toss the ground beef so it mixes with the salt and pepper to taste. Continue as you stir in more and more of the ground beef. Cook all the beef thoroughly, removing any liquid that cooks out of the beef. I like to use a splatter screen over the top and then pour the liquid into a disposable jar. When the majority of the liquid is removed, you’re ready for the next step.

Take another sip of wine. If “Nessun Dorma” is playing, lower the heat and just stop. Listen to this incredible aria. You don’t need to understand a single word, but I guarantee you will have goose bumps and tear up, not because of the onions either.

Add your cooked beef to the pot with the onions and garlic. Mix thoroughly. Turn up the heat to Medium. Next add the 4 cans of Tomato sauce and let the heat come back up. You may want to increase the heat to Medium High until everything is added. Just mind the splattering and reduce the heat if it gets out of hand. Next add the Crushed Tomatoes. Add salt and pepper to taste. Stir everything in and make sure you stir deeply to bring the bottom to the top.

Okay, now you want to add the drained mushrooms and stir them in.

Mushrooms are optional. I know some don’t like the texture. I love ’em!

Add a couple of Tablespoons of dried basil. Rub the basil in your palms and crush it into the sauce. Add a couple of Tablespoons of dried oregano. Again, rubbing the herbs between your palms and crushing it into the sauce. Smell your hands. Delicious! Add Red Pepper flakes to your taste, or don’t add any at all. A tablespoon will give this enough heat to buzz the back of your throat. Not overwhelming, but enough to let you know it’s there. Stir in thoroughly and deeply.

Take another sip of wine.

Add the Diced Tomatoes and Whole Tomatoes. If you can get the San Marzano whole tomatoes from Cento, these are by far the best. Mash and break the Whole Tomatoes up. I know, why add whole tomatoes if you’re going to break them up? Well, the larger chunks add texture and the juices inside the tomatoes will add a prefect balance of acid, sour and sweetness to the flavor. Salt and Pepper to taste. Stir thoroughly and deeply.

Finally, add the Tomato Paste. Stir in thoroughly. You want to spread the thick paste through out the sauce. It helps to thicken the sauce and the intensity of the paste adds a richness to the flavor. I sometimes add more.

Add another 2 Tablespoons each of dried Basil and Oregano, following the same instructions above.

Take another sip of wine and add the final ingredient.

Pour in 1/2 bottle of wine (CRW) or more, as long as you leave about an inch or so in the pot. Stir thoroughly.

CRR – Cheap Red Wine is perfect in sauces and I’m not sure any wine is cheaper than Winking Owl from Aldi’s Market! BTW – Winking Owl is also a good table wine.

When you see the sauce start to bubble at the top, reduce the heat to low and cover. You want the sauce to simmer for at least one hour, the longer the better. I usually have mine on simmer for about 6 hours. When I give this a long simmer I will uncover the pot and raise the heat to Medium Low for about an hour, at the end. Come back once every hour or so and gently stir the sauce. Keep mixing the flavors. Love what’s going on in that pot as the acidity and flavor of all the different tomatoes, the beef, the onions and garlic, the basil and oregano, the red pepper flakes blend and build on top of one another. If you find your sauce is too hot from the red pepper flakes, add sugar to reduce the heat.

Don’t be afraid to taste it. Adjust your seasonings as you go, depending on your tastebuds.

Minutes before you’re ready to serve, cook your pasta. Just before you’re ready to serve this, put on a pot filled half way with water and add plenty of salt. DO NOT add olive oil or any oil to your pasta water. The oil coating on the pasta makes it difficult for the sauce to cling to the pasta. I learned this from my wife, Suzanne. She kept telling me for years, “Don’t put oil in the water.” I didn’t understand why until she showed me how the sauce wasn’t clinging to the pasta. Duhhh!

When the pasta is done, I prefer al dente, so the pasta has a firm texture, drain it thoroughly and plate it. Lovingly ladle the sauce over the pasta. Remember this sauce has been bubbling for 1 to 6 hours and the flavors have been blending and introducing themselves to one another, so ladle with love. Serve this with a warm, crusty bread and butter. Have the grated or shaved cheeses on the table to sprinkle as you eat. I like to add some at the beginning of the meal and pile on more as I go.

I always have a hard time NOT overfilling my plate with this!

Consider restarting the “Three Tenors” CD, or asking Alexa to replay it, when you sit down to eat. You got to listen to this beautiful music while you were making your masterpiece, now share it!

Bread – I’m a miserable failure at baking bread. Baking perfect bread is a science and an art. I’ve tried numerous times and just can’t get it right consistently. I have, once or twice, but I’ve had so many failures I decided to hunt for a bread I could rely on. In late 2019 I found the perfect bread. We don’t have any bakeries here in Hickory that make the kind of bread I love. A hard, crunchy, crusty exterior and a chewy, airy interior are perfection. When I pull the bread apart I want it to tear jaggedly and irregularly and the crust crunch and pop. Crumbs need to fly everywhere! After many experiments, I found it. At Aldis grocery stores they sell “Specially Selected – Artisan Italian Bread” and “Specially Selected – Artisan French Baguette”. I keep several loaves of each in the freezer and pull one out ahead of time to let it thaw. You have to finish the baking of this bread. It is as close to what we used to buy, from a little French bakery in London, as anything I’ve found in the US. I bake it for the longest time suggested on the directions and even a little longer, sometimes. Either of these are great with this dish. The Italian one is more loaf like. The French one is a Baguette, long and skinny. You can’t go wrong with this bread!

Variations to keep it new…

You can do any of these variations with the leftover servings that you’ve frozen. That keeps the recipe basic and allows you to use it in a whole lot of ways.

Sometimes I like to pan fry some sweet or mild Italian sausage and add that to the recipe. I don’t add them whole, but cut the sausages into 1/2″ pieces after they are cooked.

I’ve also added leftover pork tenderloin, especially if I’ve grilled it with my Italian Seasoning rub. I cut it into 1/2″ thick slices and then the slices into quarters.

Leftover chicken, chopped and added to the sauce is also a great way to add texture and stretch the meal.

Use this sauce when making Lasagne. It’s awesome!

Wines we love with this

It often depends on the mood and the variation that I make but here’s a list that we like. If you have a favorite, go with it. I would recommend a dry red. Whites won’t stand up to the acidity and spiciness of this sauce.

Barolo

Merlot

Cabernet Sauvignon

Gattinara – Travaglini is my favorite vintner of this wine, but it is hard to find and not just a table wine. This is my absolute favorite dry red of any and all reds.

Zinfandel

Chianti – Of course!

Leftovers

Unless you are feeding a really large party with this dish, you will have leftovers. I freeze this sauce in reusable containers that are large enough to hold two servings in each. A serving is 1 1/2 to 2 ladles of sauce per person. It’s always handy for when you forget to take something out for dinner, or just need some for quick preparation. It’s also great for other recipes. The flavors only intensify when you thaw and heat this sauce a second or third time! I’ve used this in Lasagne, when I make a Timpano, Baked Ziti, for Steak Pizzaiola, in a Beef Braciole, well you get the idea.

I hope you enjoy this. Remember, make it with love, make it with care and care for the ones you love!

Cento di questi giorni! Salud! Cin cin!

Question of the day – Do you have a favorite table wine? Defined as one that you enjoy and drink fairly often, maybe daily, and isn’t too expensive.